Pros and Cons of Being an Only Child

When I meet new people, one of the first questions they often ask is whether I have siblings or if I’m an only child. Well, fun fact—I’m an only child! Surprisingly, I’ve never felt sad about not having siblings because I grew up surrounded by my younger uncle and older auntie, who are just three years apart from me in either direction.

Over the years, I’ve discovered some pros and cons of being an only child, and I’d love to explore that further. Of course, everyone’s experience is unique, so if you have insights or stories to share, please feel free to comment below!

Pros of Being an Only Child

• I’ve never felt like I was in competition with anyone.

I’ve heard stories from friends and colleagues about how they were often compared to their siblings. Being an only child, I never experienced that. I didn’t have any set standards to reach because I set my own path

• I don’t feel left out.

Growing up with my mom’s undivided attention, which was sometimes a drawback, I never felt left out or lonely. She showered me with unconditional love and attention, always praising me for my achievements. It made me feel supported and cherished throughout my childhood.

• No sibling fights

Being an only child means I never had to deal with sibling fights or worry about sharing my clothes. I always had peace and quiet, which was quite nice.

Cons of Being an Only Child

• Mom used to be overprotective

I get where my mom was coming from, but when I was a kid, I definitely felt her overprotection—it was like Marlin with Nemo from Finding Nemo. But now, she’s pretty cool and lets me do my own thing, go wherever I want.

• I don’t like sharing (kind of)

Growing up, I was accustomed to having everything to myself, so sharing wasn’t my strong suit, especially when it came to food. It took me some time to learn how to share and be more generous. Looking back, I understand what they call the ‘only-child syndrome,’ and I’m not afraid to admit I went through that phase.

• People assume I’m a bitch

You know, it’s funny how some people automatically assume things about you just because you’re an only child. I’ve had my fair share of being labeled as selfish just because of that stereotype, which can be pretty annoying. The truth is, I work hard for what I want and don’t take things for granted. My mom raised me to be humble and respectful.

Being an only child has its perks and drawbacks. I wouldn’t say I wish I had siblings, but I’m definitely open to experiencing that in another life. Having siblings would bring a different dynamic and maybe even more adventure to the family dynamic. It’s all about embracing the unique experiences life throws at you, right?