What is Pansexuality?

Growing up, I had no idea about my sexual orientation. Sure, I used to ship my two Barbie dolls together and make them act like a couple, but it never crossed my mind that I might actually date a girl or fall in love with a gay man. I just thought I had weird preferences that no one would understand.

Then I got to college and discovered I was pansexual.

Pansexuality means being romantically, emotionally, and/or sexually attracted to people regardless of their gender. Like anyone else, pansexual people might be attracted to some individuals and not others, but the gender of the person doesn’t matter. I’ve dated boys, a girl, and even fell for a gay friend. Now, I’m 100% sure I’m pansexual.

But this realization didn’t scare me. In fact, it helped me understand myself better. I’m proud of my sexuality, and even if some people think “it’s just a phase,” I know the truth. I know myself. Honestly, I find myself more attracted to girls than boys, but that’s just another chapter in my story.

Discovering my pansexuality has been a journey of self-discovery and pride. It’s made me who I am today, and for that, I’m grateful.